I had a sore head all day before I had my stroke, previous to that I had been off work with a sore neck. I saw two different doctors about my sore neck, neither of them examined me or took my blood pressure, I went to see a chiropractor and she discovered I had high blood pressure, it took me ages to get an appointment with my doctor and the ironic thing is I had an appointment the day after I took my stroke!
The day I took my stroke as I said I had a headache all day, then I started to get a tingling in my face. My daughter phoned the doctor and explained what was happening and was told I would be seen right away. When my husband got me to the doctors he had to get me a wheelchair and by this time I was crying and quite distressed as I didn't know at the time what was happening to me (my dad died when he was 39) after what had happened to my dad I was really scared and I was 38! My husband had to ask the receptionist three times to get a doctor to look at me and when they eventually did it was an apprentice doctor who I had never seen before. The doctor kept me in his surgery for about half an hour, then he called an ambulance and got a nurse to give me oxygen, I had been taking a stroke before his eyes, I lost feeling in my right side and was fast losing my speech, I was then taken to the hospital by ambulance, the hospital is about 1½ minutes from the surgery, by this time my mother was there and she came in the ambulance while my husband followed in our car.
At the hospital I was seen by a team of doctors, I don't remember too much about it, I can remember getting a scan and later on that night a lumbar puncture. I was moved to a ward and can remember my food being liquidised for the first few days and getting physio as well and sleeping quite a lot. I was on that ward for about two weeks and all the time I got help from the nurses as I couldn't walk. I was then moved to what they class as a rehab ward but in reality before it was a Geriatric Assessment Unit and as far as I am concerned it still is as the majority of patients were old, I remember well when it was a G.A.U. from when I worked as a carer. I was really depressed on that ward and cried nearly every day, they promised me intense therapy, I am still waiting for it, I got up to 20 minutes a day if I was lucky and that was about 3 out of 5 days, I did manage to walk again, but got more physio when I went out with friends and family, I used to go out as often as possible because I hated the place so much.
I still have limited movement on my right side, I get the lower rate DLA to help me cook a meal (I am unable to cook) I get no other benefits and have to pay for my prescriptions, which is 8 items, I have gone from earning £250 - £300 a week to £15 and lost all my independence. I can walk, but have no confidence or road sense so I cannot go out alone. I had to travel 70 miles for an MRI scan which showed the stroke had affected the back of the brain, which affects co-ordination but no real reason apart from high blood pressure has been found for me having the stroke.
I have since changed my GP and been transferred over to the Doctor who deals with strokes, both of them are really good as is the stroke nurse.
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